MY VALUES AND APPROACH
Creating a space where love is celebrated, visibility is a priority, and inclusivity is a non-negotiable.
As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, I create spaces where we’re not just included, but genuinely celebrated.
I often see vendors describe themselves as “queer-friendly” or, even worse, “same-sex friendly” and that doesn’t sit right with me. I want to flip the narrative and create a space where being LGBTQ+ is the standard and it doesn’t need to be accepted to be valid; I guess you could call me “Straight friendly”.
Of course, I don’t mind how you label your relationship, and I happily work with all people. But my space is a thriving space of queer inclusivity, and if your values don’t line up with mine, perhaps we aren’t the right fit.
I won’t just tolerate your love; I will celebrate it.
I will not tolerate any form of discrimination or bias.
Including homophobia, transphobia, racism, ableism, fatphobia, or any other “-isms” or “-phobias”. Not in my presence, not in your wedding space, not ever.
If it happens, I will call it out and if necessary, step away from the situation.
You deserve more than “inclusive enough.”
You deserve someone who sees your love as valid, who understands that chosen families are just as important, that every couple has different priorities, and who knows what it feels like to be othered. My goal is to make every space I work in feel safe and respected for everyone present.
For me, LGBTQ+ marriage is activism in itself. It’s a powerful declaration of love and visibility in a world that, for too long, told us we didn’t belong. When I document a wedding, I’m not just telling your story, I’m helping to reclaim our shared history. Every image becomes a testament to the love and resilience that define our community and us as humans.
In my daily life, I work with Pride Organisations, LGBTQ+ Charities, and Queer Artists; communities that constantly empower and remind me why visibility and activism matter so deeply. Those same values run through every part of my work and how I show up as a photographer.
I specialise in capturing queer weddings with a distinctive editorial-meets-documentary style; a relaxed, natural approach that lets moments breathe. I don’t force formality or stage perfection; I capture the honest, fleeting emotions that make your day true.
My vow is simple:
To ensure every couple feels safe, seen, and celebrated in front of my lens.
My photography style is calm, intuitive, and human. I believe the best images happen when you’re free to simply be yourself. I work gently, allowing space for quiet moments and emotional pauses as much as the wild, joy-filled ones.
I understand that weddings can be overwhelming, especially for neurodivergent couples. I never ignore the need for quiet moments or a slower pace - your comfort and well-being come first. My approach is shaped by accessibility awareness and neurodivergent thinking, from flexible communication to sensory considerations and scheduling that works for you. Whether you need time away from crowds, clear structure, or gentle guidance, I’ll adapt to ensure the experience feels grounding, not overwhelming.
All forms of love are welcomed and celebrated - from queer, trans, and non-binary love to polyamorous relationships and chosen families. However your relationship looks, you deserve to be seen and celebrated exactly as you are.
“As a queer and neurodivergent couple we knew there were certain things that would be unlike a usual wedding for us. Haydn really rose to the occasion and made us feel so safe and comfortable for our special day. It was such a relief knowing that the photos taken will be beautiful forever and absolutely exactly what we wanted.
I'd recommend Haydn 1000% as he was so kind, professional, and above all else takes bloody good photographs!”
Inclusivity Beyond Buzzwords
Being inclusive isn’t a checkbox for me; it’s simply who I am and how I operate.
From day one, I’ve made it a priority to use non-gendered, respectful language, to honour people’s pronouns, names, and titles, and to create a space where everyone feels at ease.
If someone isn’t out, I always follow their lead: their comfort and safety come first, always.
I’m also conscious of my privilege as a white, cis gay man. While I’m part of a marginalised community, I recognise the responsibility that comes with privilege. Whether it’s calling out injustice, using my platform to create safer spaces, or amplifying other voices; I strive to make a difference.
I’m surrounded by a wonderfully diverse group of friends and peers from all walks of life, and I’m constantly learning from them. Those lessons shape how I run my business, so that every decision, every shoot, and every interaction is grounded in representation and respect.
Beyond the Lens
From the very beginning, my business has grown within - and because of - the LGBTQ+ community
As a student, I noticed how little queer representation existed in media, and I knew I wanted to change that.
Whenever I can, I choose to hire queer creatives, collaborate with queer-led brands, and support LGBTQ+ businesses.
Photography is just one part of how I celebrate and document queer life. Beyond the camera, I’ve run LGBTQ+ fringe festivals, curated exhibitions, and worked with Pride events and schools to share queer stories and spark conversation.
Every project, whether personal or professional, connects back to the same goal: to celebrate our community and educate other through art with honesty.
To see more about my work, see below.
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